I received a message via my Facebook page last week.
‘Have you got married yet.’
I didn’t recognise the name, so I simply responded with the fact that I hadn’t and that the wedding is in October. After a quick conversation it became apparent that the person messaging me worked for a TV production company that were creating a programme for a main channel here in the UK about different weddings. Turns out, she found out that I was getting married through my blog and we had a lovely chat about our current stages in our wedding planning, as she is getting married a few weeks before me.
I couldn’t do the programme – they needed people who were getting married before March – and because of the fact that The Bloke works in a school and I still work in schools on a supply (locum) basis, it probably wouldn’t have been a good idea anyway (the education system is notorious for not allowing their staff to have any sort of public life outside of the profession).
This is the second time I’ve been approached about doing something on TV because of the blog. Last year, I was messaged by the producer of This Morning, a daytime magazine-type show here in the UK, who had seen my post about quitting my job and wanted me to come on to discuss it. Unfortunately, they wanted me to take the angle of it being naughty and unruly kids as the reason why I left, which isn’t true, so I declined.
Still, it’s still a pretty fantastic (if a bit mind-boggling) reminder that people outside of the blogging community actually read my posts…
Now, I wonder what I have to do to get a TV programme with Dolph Lundgren?
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you have the best adventures with your blog! I feel great if someone reads mine! Love your posts, and am so grateful I found your blog.
Me too my lovely – your friendship is very important to me!
thank you, that truly blesses me!
Thanks lovely!
If you get a gig with Dolph Lundgren…Im your official chaperone!
Haha! I’ve had a few offers surprisingly for the same thing!
That’s brilliant, Suzie!!! Yeay! More to come I am certain! 🙂 Cher xo
Thanks Cher!
About the show about leaving teaching: You didn’t have the answer they wanted, so they didn’t want you. And in this way is our image of the world we live in constructed. Start with question, provide the answers, then find the person to deliver them. Ignore everything and everyone else.
Yeah – it was more that they asked me and I declined because the topic wasn’t relevant to my reasons for leaving… but I certainly see what you mean…
Hey, they say third time’s the charm, so maybe the next offer will have you co-hosting with Dolph… *grin*
Now if that ever appears I’ll be there in a flash! Poor guy – he wouldn’t know what was coming until it was too late haha!
How cool! I’m a new follower, and I’d love to read more about your transition out of teaching. I’m currently a teacher myself contemplating… things… 🙂
Hi Becca! How long have you been teaching? This may help explain things https://suzie81speaks.com/2015/03/09/i-quit-my-job-today/
Suzie, I just welled up with tears reading your post. It sounds like me. This is my 6th year teaching, and I am just burnt out. So much of the joy I found in teaching at the beginning of my career (which was not so long ago) is gone. So much of what you wrote rings true with me– from the expectations of a teacher, to the apathy of students, to the emotions I’m experiencing. I’ve been struggling and having so much anxiety about the fact that all I ever wanted was to be a teacher, but what I do now? It doesn’t make me happy. I am not consistently happy in my job. And it’s not what I expected for my life. I’m coming to terms with the idea of leaving and finding something different, but it’s definitely a roller-coaster of emotions.
Feel free if you want to DM me on Twitter @suzie81blog if you want to chat about it… I’m really sorry you’re feeling that way…
Thanks so much Suzie. I may take you up in that sometime. It helps knowing that I’m not the only person who has felt/ feels this way.
Wow! The TV people are calling you! Hopefully one will work out one day.
Haha! i hope so!!
Awww, I thought you were selling a telly #gutted
You can have my TV if you like Steve – its a 32″ and a bargain at £2000!!!
Cool. I’ll pay you with the Popes favourite method of payment – Paypal…papal getit?
Bah bum!!! I’m sending you an imaginary facepalm gif now…
That’s fantastic, Suzie! It’s a wonderful feeling to know that your blog is reaching people all over the globe. (If you ever get a call to be an extra on Game of Thrones then give me a shout!! 😜)
Hahahaha! Definitely! We can shove on some fake fur coats, stick on some really heavy northern accents and try not to jump on Jon Snow when he walks past… Yum!
Hahaha I’m not making any promises!!!
Dang, girl. You fancy!! That is amazing, despite the fact that you aren’t accepting.
Yeah, it’s really exciting! I actually read that in the accent I imagine you to have!
LOL!!!
Fame!
Okay, you already know fame, at least on small screens. Onwards to bigger screens!?
Keep up the good work of being yourself.
Vincent
Haha! Thanks Vincent!
What a compliment to be asked to do the programme 🙂 Hopefully you get another offer with better timing soon.
Absolutely! I wonder if they are doing a honeymoon one (that they want to pay for) haha!
Dolph Lundgren? Ugh
Oi! Don’t insult the Dolph! He’s the most beautiful man ever created!
You obviously haven’t looked closely enough at my profile picture.
You’re a very close second Phil, it’s just I’ve been in love with him for nearly 30 years haha!
I’m pretty sure that at this point, 30 years later, up close his luxe won’t have held up very well. Unlike mine of course.
You’re probably right…
And of course your looks have improved since you were 5 and Dolph would be lucky to meet you
Definitely – my mum likes to cut my hair into a bowl shape as a kid haha!
And thanks…
LOL! I think I had the same haircut too!
you’re going to have to send me a pic now haha!
I’ll see if I can find one and I’ll send it to you through Twitter. I won’t display it publicly.
Deal! Sending mine now haha!
Minus the crush and Dolph Lundgren.
And yours.
Did you say 30 years? You’ve been in love with him since you were five?
Six. I went to see Masters of the Universe with six boys for my sixth birthday and it’s been an unrequited love affair ever since. I have a signed print of him in that film in my room…
Dolph Lundgren? Can I be on that show too? 😊 *hangs head in shame* Yes, that’s what I took away from this post lol. Blogging is awesome xx
Haha! I’ve been on love with him for nearly 30 years… I’m not sharing him woman!!!
Surely there’s enough Dolph to go around? ;-D
MINE! MINE!
😆😆
That is so cool!
Thank you!
I know you’re flattered, Suzie, and well you should be, but you might have found the attention more than you’d want to deal with. Just imagine being up in front of all the parents on back to school night, or whatever they call it in Britain – now multiply by several million viewers, all of them screaming at you. Enjoy the privacy of your wedding when it happens.
I think you’re absolutely right Sharon. I don’t think a lot of my family and friends would have been comfortable with it…
That’s awesome! Love your blog! I could only dream about one day being contacted by a TV travel program. That is our ultimate goal and we will work as hard as possible to achieve it! Best of luck with everything Suzie! 😊
Thank so much! Ooh, a travel programme would be amazing! Where would be your ultimate destination?
It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey! I’m happy exploring anywhere, adventuring is in my blood. The ultimate goal is to be able to travel the world freely, without worrying about the financial aspect. We love showcasing the beauty of each location we visit so the whole world could see.
That sounds like something I can relate to haha! My biggest regret is not traveling more when I was a bit younger…
It’s never too late to travel! You need to take your chances as you get them. Experiences and memories are the only things we’ll remember for our entire lives. Stories get passed down for generations.
Absolutely! I love that!
Wow, thats quiet impressive being contacted by This Morning. Fair play to saying no and no doubt there will be several other tv opportunities in the near future, Chloe.
Haha! I’m not cut out for TV I suppose – I’m much more comfortable being being the screen rather than on it…
Wow that sounds amazing! I for one, though, would want to keep my wedding private; I’m a bit of a control freak and I just know the cameras would want me to do something differently!
Yeah that was my thinking too – I’ll put up some stuff in the blog but not the whole ceremony haha!
Once again, you’re my hero, Suzie.
The only way I’m ever getting on TV is to be part of one of those news pieces that ends with, “Before turning the gun on himself…”
With the stories I’ve seen about your guests, let’s hope not!